HOW DO WOMEN GET TURNED OUT IN PRISON?
WHAT REALLY HAPPENS BEHIND THOSE WALLS
You Don’t Know Until You’ve Been There
You can’t speak on what goes on behind bars unless you’ve lived it, seen it, or sat across from someone who has. Most people think women’s prisons are soft, quiet places where inmates just do their time and move on. But let me tell you something real—it’s a different world in there. There are no saints behind those walls. There’s pain, manipulation, survival, and yes, a lot of sex.
Some women walk in innocent, naive, or simply focused on their cases. They might have never even looked at another woman like that. But the longer they’re in, the more things change. Over time, most of them get "turned out." That means they give in to same-sex activity—sometimes by choice, sometimes by pressure, and sometimes because there’s no one else there to lean on.
A lot of women aren’t even gay before they get locked up. They’ve never kissed a woman or thought about being with one. But when the months turn into years, and you’re stuck in that same place day after day, something happens. You get lonely. You get weak. And those who’ve been there long know how to spot it.
This article isn’t about judgment. It’s about truth. I’m here to expose what many won’t talk about. The stories that don’t make the headlines. The quiet turning of souls inside the prison walls. The seduction. The manipulation. The slow grind that breaks women down and makes them accept a life they never imagined for themselves.
And make no mistake—some of the women who do the turning out? They’ve been in there for years. They know how to work you. They watch. They wait. They strike when you least expect it.
The Slow Breakdown of a Woman’s Will
When a woman first walks into prison, she’s usually scared. She’s thinking about her kids, her freedom, and how to survive. The last thing on her mind is another woman’s touch. But in that environment, emotions run high, and isolation takes a toll.
There are women who’ve been down for a long time. They know how this game works. They spot the new ones fast—the quiet ones, the lonely ones, the ones who still believe they’ll walk out untouched. These predators don’t move too quickly. They start with kindness. A favor here, a little help there. They become your “friend.” They comfort you when you cry. They listen to you.
That comfort turns into something else. It becomes emotional. It feels safe. But it’s calculated. These seasoned inmates are reading you like a book. They know how to wait. And when you’re weak, when you need somebody the most, that’s when they make their move.
Before you know it, the lines blur. You’re in a relationship you never wanted. You’re doing things you never thought you would. And once it starts, it’s hard to stop. There’s pressure to stay with them, to remain loyal, even if your spirit is telling you this ain’t right.
That’s the real prison. Not just the bars—but the mind games, the emotional chains. Women get turned out not just physically, but mentally. They become somebody else entirely.
Most Women Don’t Walk Out the Same
You might think these women will get out and go back to normal. That they’ll leave that behind once the gates open. But it’s not that simple. Time changes people. So do experiences. And the longer you stay, the deeper it gets.
Some women do go back to their regular lives. They return to men, to family, to what they knew before. But many don’t. Some stay in that lifestyle because it’s what they came to depend on behind the walls. That affection, that control, that bond—it sticks with them.
It’s not always love. Sometimes it’s survival. Sometimes it’s fear. Sometimes it’s a coping mechanism. But whatever the reason, the truth remains—most women who do real time end up touched in that way.
Even those who fight it at first usually give in. Because prison isn’t normal life. There’s no space. No escape. No privacy. You eat, sleep, and breathe the same air as people who have agendas. And if you don’t have a strong enough mind, you will fall.
And the ones doing the turning out? They don’t stop. They find another. And another. It’s a cycle. They train them, break them, and move on.
The Power of Manipulation
These long-term inmates don’t just use words. They use emotions. They know how to make a woman feel wanted, feel seen, feel loved—even if it’s all fake. They know what to say, how to touch, when to back off and when to press.
Some of them are true manipulators. They might have come in with charges for robbery, drugs, or murder—but behind those crimes is a sharp, broken mind that knows how to hunt emotionally.
They become the girlfriend, the protector, the emotional hook. And by the time a woman realizes what’s happened, it’s already too late. She’s deep in. She feels loyal. She may even feel like she loves them. That’s how powerful the manipulation is.
These are not casual flings. These are full-blown relationships inside prison. And they are rooted in control, emotional grooming, and trauma bonding. They play on the fact that the system has stripped you of everything—so they offer you something that feels like love.
But love built on desperation is not love. It’s a trap.
Temporary Lovers, Permanent Scars
Some women only give in because they’re locked up. It’s just for that time. They would never go that way on the outside. But even short-term connections can leave long-term wounds.
Imagine carrying the shame, confusion, or regret of what happened behind bars long after you're free. Some never talk about it. Some feel they’ve lost their identity. Some are judged when they get out, either for what they did or who they became.
This isn’t a joke. It’s real life. And the damage is often silent. The public doesn’t see it. They think women’s prisons are all fights and phone calls. But the real battles are spiritual. Emotional. And sexual.
You walk in thinking you’ll just do your time and get out. But for many women, prison becomes a place where you lose who you were—and sometimes, you never get her back.
This Is Not Fiction
Let me be clear—this is not some fantasy story. This is real. This is what happens in women’s prisons every single day. And most folks out here have no clue. They laugh, they gossip, but they don’t understand how deep it gets.
I’m not writing this to throw shade at anyone. I’m writing this to expose what most people are too afraid to say. Because there are women right now, behind those walls, being slowly broken down and turned out while the world sleeps.
It’s not always forced. Sometimes it’s gentle. But that’s what makes it more dangerous. It creeps in. And it makes you question everything about yourself.
There needs to be more awareness about this. Not just for the women doing time, but for their families, their children, and their future. Because if you don’t know what prison can do to a woman, you’ll never understand the pain she carries when she gets out.
Women are coming out of prison changed. Not just because of the time, but because of what was done to them mentally, emotionally, and sexually. And if we don’t talk about it, we leave them to suffer in silence.
This is LanceScurv. And I’m not here to sugarcoat a damn thing. Truth don’t need permission.
