IS THERE A TUG OF WAR OVER YOUR LIFE FORCE?

They Don’t Want You to Win

Everywhere you turn, there seems to be a hidden fight over your energy—your life force. Some people see you rising, focused, and determined, and they don’t like that. They won’t tell you directly. Instead, they’ll smile in your face while secretly trying to throw you off course. These aren’t always enemies; sometimes, it’s the people closest to you doing the most damage.

You start your day with purpose. You’ve got a plan. You’ve carved out time to work on your dream, build your health, focus on your goals—but right before you begin, the phone starts blowing up. Text after text. Forwarded video after video. It’s no coincidence. It’s a tactic. Whether they know it or not, they’ve become agents of distraction, pulling you out of your zone.

And let’s not forget those who show fake concern. You haven’t posted in a while or you’ve gone quiet because you’re grinding in private—and now they’re messaging you saying, “Are you okay? You don’t look well.” Deep down, they’re not worried. They’re planting seeds of doubt to make you question your strength. That’s psychological warfare, plain and simple.

Some people can’t stand to see you glowing. Your progress reminds them of their lack of discipline. You’re doing what they claim they want to do, but they don’t have the heart or the hustle to make it happen. So instead of getting inspired, they try to pull you down—slow you up just enough to make themselves feel better.

This is a tug-of-war over your life force, and whether you see it or not, it’s happening. Not just in big ways—but in little cuts, daily distractions, and subtle jabs meant to shake your focus. But once you recognize the game, you can stop playing it.

SUBTLE TRICKS THEY USE TO DRAIN YOU

Energy vampires come in many forms. Some are loud and obvious—always asking for favors, never giving back. Others are quiet manipulators, trying to appear helpful or “concerned” just to get inside your mind. But either way, their goal is the same: to throw you off your path.

Let’s be real—some folks only come around when you’re on fire. When they see you building momentum, that’s when they show up. Not to help, not to cheer you on, but to absorb your energy. They want to be around your glow because they’re empty inside. And when they leave, you feel tired, irritated, and drained. That’s not love—that’s theft.

Then you have the distractors. They act like they’re your biggest fan, but they always “need” your attention right when you’re locked into your routine. They’ll send you messages, ask you to talk, or randomly pull you into drama that doesn’t concern you. And if you set boundaries, they call you selfish or distant. Nah. You’re just protecting your purpose.

There’s also emotional guilt. Some people will try to make you feel bad for focusing on yourself. They’ll say, “You’ve changed,” or “You don’t have time for anyone anymore.” That’s a trap. Growth requires focus. And real friends respect your grind. If they can’t handle your growth, they were never for you in the first place.

And finally, some folks just don’t want to see you win because they’ve already given up on themselves. Your movement exposes their laziness. Your discipline reminds them of their lack of drive. So they become saboteurs—smiling while secretly praying you fail. You need to spot these people early.

GUARDING YOUR LIFE FORCE

You have to guard your energy like your life depends on it—because it does. Not all battles are physical. Most are spiritual and mental. And the wrong people can do more damage than a dozen enemies when they’re close enough to whisper lies into your ear.

First, trust your gut. If you feel off around someone, listen to that. Don’t explain it away. Energy doesn’t lie. Second, create time blocks for your focus. Turn your phone off. Let folks know when you're unavailable. Make it clear—this is your sacred time, and no one is allowed to interrupt it.

Keep your goals to yourself unless you’re sharing with people who are truly invested in your success. Not everybody deserves to know your next move. And don’t feel guilty for putting distance between you and people who drain you. That’s not being mean—that’s being wise.

You must also feed your own spirit. Whether it’s prayer, meditation, exercise, or silence—build a daily ritual that grounds you. When your cup is full, you’re less likely to be shaken by others. And when you know who you are, their opinions can’t confuse you.

Finally, surround yourself with warriors, not worriers. People who push you forward, not hold you back. People who celebrate your progress, not resent it. Life is too short to waste your strength fighting off people who should be cheering you on.

TAKE BACK YOUR POWER

This isn’t just about distractions—it’s about your legacy. Every minute you waste dealing with hidden enemies is a minute you could’ve spent building your vision. And some of y’all have gifts so powerful that others would kill to possess them. That’s why the attacks are so heavy. Your light bothers their demons.

We’ve all had moments where we gave our time and energy to the wrong people. But moving forward, that ends today. The goal now is protection. Peace. Progress. You weren’t put here to babysit broken people who have no interest in healing. You were put here to shine—and that shine requires discipline and focus.

Don’t be afraid to let go. You’re not being cold—you’re being clear. Everybody can’t go with you. And the longer you carry the wrong people, the longer you delay your blessings. You don’t owe them that. What you owe is to your purpose and to the Most High who gave it to you.

Let them call you distant. Let them call you cold. But when you’re walking in power and peace, they’ll have no choice but to respect it. You don’t need an army. You need alignment. And when you’re aligned with your purpose, you’re unstoppable.

So ask yourself today—is there a tug-of-war over your life force? And if the answer is yes, then it’s time to cut the ropes, take your power back, and protect your peace like it’s the most valuable thing in your world—because it is.