MANIPULATORS, LIARS AND SOUL SNATCHERS CAN BE THE MOST CHARMING PEOPLE...
This earthly plane of existence is a place where most people wear masks, carefully concealing the darkness that lurks beneath. I’ve come to realize that true evil isn’t always loud, aggressive, or obvious, it’s subtle, patient, and often cloaked in kindness. Many of the people around us, even those we trust, harbor hidden intentions, their hearts tainted with envy, resentment, and deceit. They walk beside us, offer support in times of struggle, and even lend a helping hand when we’re at our lowest. But beneath the surface, their motives aren’t as pure as they seem.
Some of the most dangerous individuals aren’t the ones who openly despise you; they’re the ones who stand closest, pretending to be allies while secretly waiting for the right moment to strike. They camouflage themselves in the fabric of your daily life, making their betrayal all the more devastating when it finally unfolds. Over the years, I’ve had to learn this lesson the hard way, trusting the wrong people, opening my heart to those who had no business being near it, and watching as their deceit played out like a well-rehearsed script.
But even in the midst of all this darkness, there are those rare souls, true warriors, who see through the illusion and warn us of the dangers we fail to recognize. At first, we might dismiss their insights, thinking they’re being overly cautious, but time always reveals the truth. My mother raised me with an awareness of spiritual warfare, teaching me that not everything that appears good is truly good. And as I’ve navigated life, I’ve come to see the wisdom in her words.
Understanding this battle is essential not to dwell in paranoia, but to sharpen our awareness. Evil operates in cycles, feeding off our emotions, tempting us into battles that aren’t worth fighting. The key to victory isn’t revenge; it’s rising above, refusing to be consumed by the very darkness that seeks to pull us down. This isn’t about living in fear, but about moving with discernment, choosing to invest our energy in those who genuinely uplift us and cutting off those who only seek to drain and destroy.
Now, let’s take a deeper look at how these hidden forces operate and what we must do to protect ourselves from their influence.
Evil doesn’t always come with a wicked grin or an obvious threat. Sometimes, it arrives wrapped in kindness, appearing as a friend, a lover, or even a trusted mentor. The most dangerous people are not those who openly declare their malice but those who manipulate, deceive, and destroy from the shadows. Below are the key signs that expose them.
1. Fake Generosity with Strings Attached
At first glance, they seem to be the most generous, selfless people you’ve ever met. They offer help before you even ask, shower you with kindness, and make sacrifices for your well-being. But over time, a pattern emerges—you realize their kindness is not truly free.
They remind you of everything they’ve done for you when you don’t do what they want. Their generosity is a tool for control. If you try to refuse, they make you feel guilty, as if rejecting them is an act of betrayal. They don’t give to help; they give to own.
2. Manipulation Through Guilt and Victimhood
Evil people are experts at twisting reality to make themselves the victims. The moment you resist their control, they don’t lash out with anger, at least not immediately. Instead, they play the victim:
“I was only trying to help. Why are you treating me like this?”
“After everything I’ve done for you, this is how you repay me?”
They make you second-guess yourself. Were you too harsh? Did you misunderstand? Before you know it, you’re apologizing to them, when they were the ones in the wrong.
3. Lack of Genuine Empathy
You tell them about your struggles, and they listen. But something is off. Their responses lack warmth, depth, or real concern. If you’re in pain, they don’t flinch. They watch suffering like a spectator at a show, unmoved, unbothered.
When you truly need support, they vanish. Not because they forgot, but because they never cared. And when they do acknowledge your pain, it’s dismissive:
“You’re overreacting.”
“Everyone has problems.”
“You should just get over it.”
If someone trivializes your struggles rather than supports you, they are not your friend. They are dangerous.
4. Pathological Lying and Deception
Their words don’t align with reality. Stories change, details contradict, yet they remain calm, no guilt, no hesitation. They lie even when there’s no reason to. They rewrite history, fabricate achievements, and manipulate facts to suit their agenda.
The most chilling part? They believe their own lies. When caught, they double down, gaslight you, and twist the truth until you question your own memories. If someone’s version of reality is always shifting, beware, you are dealing with a master manipulator.
5. Taking Pleasure in Others’ Pain
It’s not always obvious. They don’t openly celebrate someone’s downfall. Instead, it’s subtle:
A smirk when someone fails.
A lingering glance when you suffer.
A backhanded compliment when you succeed.
They may pretend to offer support, but their words drip with insincerity. If someone’s success annoys them and others’ suffering excites them, you are in the presence of something sinister.
6. Gaslighting: Twisting Your Reality
Gaslighting is one of the most insidious tactics of evil people. They make you question your own memories, sanity, and perception of reality. If you call them out, they respond with:
“That never happened.”
“You’re imagining things.”
“You’re being too sensitive.”
Over time, you begin to doubt yourself, unsure of what’s real. This is how they break you down, slowly, methodically, until you rely on them to define reality.
7. Endless Drama and Chaos
Everywhere they go, conflict follows. They pit people against each other, create unnecessary problems, and always seem to be at the center of turmoil. Their life is an endless cycle of feuds, betrayals, and falling-outs.
They enjoy stirring the pot, not because they want solutions, but because they thrive on chaos. Peace is boring to them. If someone’s life is a non-stop soap opera, be careful, you might be their next storyline.
8. A Complete Lack of Remorse
If they hurt you, they won’t feel bad. If they apologize, it’s only because they have something to gain. True remorse leads to change, but an evil person never truly reflects on their actions.
If you confront them about the pain they caused, they will either:
Laugh it off.
Blame you for their actions.
Act like you’re crazy for bringing it up.
They don’t regret. They don’t reflect. They just move on to the next victim.
9. Control Disguised as Concern
They dictate what you do, who you talk to, and where you go, but not openly. Instead, they frame it as care:
“I just want what’s best for you.”
“I don’t think they’re good for you.”
“You’re making a mistake, trust me.”
Slowly, they isolate you, cut you off from others, and tighten their grip. By the time you realize it, you’re trapped.
10. The Disappearance Act:
Abandonment When You Need Them Most
When everything is good, they’re around. But when you hit rock bottom, they vanish. They don’t offer support, comfort, or encouragement. Why? Because they were never truly there for you to begin with.
True friends stand by you in tough times. Evil people disappear the moment they can no longer use you.
Protect Yourself
If you recognize these signs in someone close to you, take it seriously. Evil people don’t change, they only refine their tactics. The best defense? Distance. No explanations, no debates, just walk away.
Your energy is too valuable to be drained by those who seek to control, manipulate, and destroy. Surround yourself with people who uplift, support, and genuinely care. Life is too short to be trapped in someone else’s darkness.
Life has a way of bringing us full circle, reminding us that nothing we go through is in vain. Just recently, I reconnected with an old friend, someone I hadn’t spoken to in 33 years. Though time had passed, our stories were eerily similar, as if we had been walking parallel paths all along. She, too, had encountered the deception of narcissistic, evil-hearted people. She had endured the betrayal of family, the schemes of so-called friends, and the backstabbing of acquaintances who were never truly in her corner. Yet, despite it all, she emerged stronger, wiser, and more at peace than ever. Now, she lives off the grid in Georgia, far from the noise and toxicity of the world, much like how I’ve found my own peace here in Ghana.
As we spoke, we realized that everything we had gone through had served a purpose. The pain, the disappointment, the betrayals, they weren’t signs of our weakness but rather proof of our resilience. The people who tried to break us only exposed themselves in the process, revealing their true nature for us to see clearly. And once you see a person for who they really are, they can never hurt you again. We both agreed that, in a strange way, we owe those people our gratitude. They were the fire that refined us, the obstacles that strengthened our faith, and the lessons that taught us who truly belonged in our lives.
There’s a certain peace that comes when you no longer question who is for you and who is against you. The trials of dealing with deceptive people may have been painful, but they granted us the ultimate gift, clarity. No longer do we waste time on those who only seek to drain us. No longer do we allow ourselves to be manipulated by false kindness or deceived by flattering words. Instead, we walk forward with purpose, knowing that we are surrounded only by those who genuinely uplift and support us. The weight of false connections has been lifted, and in its place, there is freedom.
This is why, in the grand scheme of things, those who meant us harm actually did us a favor. They thought they were tearing us down, but they only sharpened our instincts and deepened our connection with God. They played their hand, thinking they had won, but in truth, they only revealed their own weakness. Because when you are truly anchored in faith and determination, no amount of deception can break you. When you trust in the divine plan, even the worst experiences can be transformed into stepping stones toward your highest self.
So to anyone who is still battling with the pain of betrayal, know this, hold on. Keep your faith strong. No evil can truly prosper against you if you remain steadfast in your purpose. The storms may rage, and the snakes may slither close, but when you walk with God, you are always protected. In the end, the ones who sought to destroy you will only expose themselves, and you will be left standing, stronger than ever, walking into the peace and purpose that was meant for you all along.
I speak from experience and do hope these words have brought you into a place if clarity as the storm of these wayward spirits try so hard to rob you of your divine destiny…
Sincerely Shared,
LanceScurv
Lance@LanceScurv.com
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