There comes a time when we must face a truth we have tried to ignore for generations. Many in our community are not simply confused, not simply lost, but deeply broken at the root. This damage did not begin yesterday, nor did it come only from personal failures or lack of will. It is the long-term result of a mind shaped to hate itself, to distrust its own reflection, and to depend on outside approval for identity and survival.
When I say some are too damaged beyond repair, it is not to throw them away. It is to admit that many have been shaped by forces they cannot see, understand, or break free from. A colonized mind is not just misled—it has been trained to fight against its own healing. It defends its pain, protects its trauma, and clings to the very systems that keep it spiritually crippled.
A colonized mind learns to love what destroys it and despise what should unite it. It learns to laugh at its own suffering, to mock its own culture, and to celebrate its own downfall. Even when truth is offered, it sees truth as threat, unity as weakness, and self-love as rebellion.
The saddest part is not that some are lost, but that they believe they are already free while still chained mentally, emotionally, and socially. They have learned to smile through pain, joke through trauma, and act as if brokenness is normal. They don’t recognize the cage, because the cage has become their comfort.
In facing this reality, we accept that healing is not for everyone. Some will reject it, some will fear it, and some will attack anyone who offers it. True liberation is a choice, and not everyone will choose it.
A colonized mind was not created in a day. It took generations of forced silence, trauma passed down like inheritance, and systems built to shape how we see ourselves. Many of us were raised to distrust each other before we even knew why. We were taught to doubt our potential, hold back our love, and compete against our own blood for validation that never truly comes.
This mindset shows up everywhere. It shows in how easily we tear each other down, how quick we are to insult, dismiss, and judge each other. It shows in how many choose temporary pleasure over long-term growth. It shows in how often we avoid accountability but hide behind victimhood when it is convenient. When the mind is colonized, logic is twisted and emotions control decisions.
The colonized mind does not seek unity. It seeks comfort, escape, and survival at any cost. It is addicted to distraction, to entertainment, to lifestyles that bring no growth. It prefers chaos over accountability, gossip over truth, and popularity over purpose. The soul becomes numb, and the heart becomes hard.
Those who try to heal often become targets. When you speak clarity to someone who has built identity on confusion, they see you as an enemy. When you try to show self-love to someone who has been trained to worship everything outside themselves, they see you as arrogant. When you speak liberation to someone who is afraid of freedom, they call you extreme.
Not everyone has the strength to unlearn the damage. Not everyone can sit with their trauma long enough to heal it. Some have lived too long defending their pain, excusing their emptiness, and pretending the mask is their real face. Healing takes honesty, and honesty is the one thing many fear most.
So yes, some minds are too damaged beyond repair—not because healing is impossible, but because healing is unwanted. Pain has become identity. Confusion has become culture. Dependency has become comfort. When the chains are removed, some beg to keep them.
The colonized mind can never be restored if it refuses to detach from the very systems that colonized it. Liberation is not just a physical shift, but a mental and spiritual rebirth. Some will choose it. Some will reject it. And some will never even recognize they needed it.
MY FINAL THOUGHTS…
In accepting this truth, we learn a deeper form of peace. We stop trying to save those who fight against their own salvation. We stop exhausting our energy on those who refuse growth. Healing must be chosen—it cannot be forced.
Let us focus on those who want transformation. Those who are ready to break habits, face their inner wounds, and rebuild their sense of self. These are the ones who will carry the future, not those who cling to destruction as identity.
Growth requires separation. You cannot heal in the same crowd that celebrates your brokenness. You cannot rise in the same circle that mocks your purpose. Sometimes the most loving act is stepping away from those committed to their own downfall.
The door to healing remains open, but not everyone will walk through it. Some will stay behind in darkness and call it comfort. Some will stay chained and call it freedom. Some will stay broken and call it normal.
The future belongs to those who choose liberation over imitation, clarity over confusion, and self-love over self-destruction. The colonized mind may never be restored, but the liberated mind can build a new world.
